Good news: your cat doesn’t hate you

You should also consider whether you can manage the ongoing costs of food, litter, vaccinations, and veterinary treatment.

The costs can be high, but the rewards can be considerable. Preventive Health SA says pets not only provide companionship, but they can reduce stress, encourage routine, and give us a valuable sense of purpose.

Even simply patting an animal can promote relaxation.

These benefits may be especially important for older people, those experiencing health difficulties, and anyone feeling socially isolated.

Cats have long been regarded as more independent than dogs. They do not need to be walked, can use a litter tray, and are often content to spend large parts of the day alone.

But that independent streak should not be mistaken for indifference.

According to veterinary experts quoted by Newsweek, cats form multilayered memories involving familiar people, places, sounds, smells, and routines. A cat may remember a trusted owner for months or even years, particularly when the relationship has been stable and caring.

Owners become associated not only with affection, but also with food, safety, play, and a secure home.

A cat’s affection can be subtle. Rather than bounding to the door like an enthusiastic dog, it may greet you with an upright tail or rub against your legs.

Some cats become devoted lap companions and some like to sleep at the end of your bed, while others show loyalty by simply choosing to remain in the same room.

Their idiosyncrasies are part of the appeal. A cat may ignore an expensive toy but become fascinated by its cardboard packaging. It may demand breakfast before sunrise – perhaps by tapping you on the face to wake you up – occupy the chair you have just vacated or decide that your computer keyboard is the best place to sleep.

Each animal develops its own routines, preferences, and amusing (or frustrating) household rituals.

Cats also communicate discomfort differently from people. Hiding, hissing, flattened ears, dilated pupils, or a lashing tail do not mean a cat “hates” its owner. Experts say these behaviours are more likely to indicate fear, anxiety, or pain.

Giving the animal space, avoiding forced cuddles, and maintaining predictable feeding and play routines can help build trust. Sudden or persistent behavioural changes should be discussed with a veterinarian.

The RSPCA says cats can live happily in most homes provided their environment meets their physical and mental needs.

Scratching posts, toys, elevated resting places, hiding areas and regular play can keep an indoor cat active and stimulated.

Responsible ownership also includes microchipping, identification, desexing, and appropriate veterinary care.

For an older person seeking a companion with personality, affection, and just a touch of mystery, a well-matched adult cat could be ... wait for it ... the purr-fect housemate.