Everything I know, TV taught me

For many Australians, growing up during the mid-20th century meant a steady diet of American TV shows that, despite being produced half a world away, had a profound influence on the way we saw the world. 

While they offered plenty of laughs and escapism, shows such as The Brady Bunch, The Munsters, The Addams Family, Happy Days, and The Golden Girls also delivered timeless moral lessons that resonate with us today. 

At a time when the concept of blended families was becoming more common but still faced societal challenges, the Bradys modelled harmony and understanding. 

From episodes dealing with sibling rivalry to challenges at school, we learned that family isn’t just about blood, it’s about love, patience, and teamwork. 

When we think back to those stories, we can recall lessons about problem-solving, empathy, and the importance of working together despite differences. 

Parents Mike and Carol Brady’s approach to discipline – firm but fair – taught us that open communication and compassion are at the heart of strong relationships. 

At first glance, The Munsters seemed like an odd choice for moral lessons. But behind the slapstick comedy of this “monstrous” family was a clear message about accepting people who are different to us. 

The Munster family, though unconventional, was loving, kind, and rooted in strong family values. Herman, the head of the family, despite his Frankenstein-like appearance, was portrayed as a simple, loving, and caring father. 

Lily Munster was an elegant matriarch, and Grandpa, with his eccentric ways, was full of wisdom. The show gently reminded us that outward appearances don’t define who we are. 

The Munsters stood proud in their unique identities, sending a message that true character lies beneath the surface.

Much like The Munsters, The Addams Family celebrated the idea of being different. The Addams clan lived life on their own terms, oblivious to societal norms, but in doing so, they modelled a surprisingly progressive attitude toward individuality and self-expression. 

Whether it was Morticia’s mysterious charm, Gomez’s exuberance, or Uncle Fester’s eccentricities, each member of the family accepted one another without judgment. 

For Australians watching these episodes, it was a reminder that there’s value in living authentically, regardless of what others may think. 

The Addams Family showed us that being true to oneself is the key to happiness, and that families who support each other in their uniqueness can thrive together. 

Set in the 1950s, Happy Days gave viewers a dose of nostalgia even as it aired in the 1970s and 1980s. At the heart of the show was the Cunninghams, a traditional family who navigated the ups and downs of life with their lovable but rebellious friend, Arthur “Fonzie” Fonzarelli, by their side. 

Each episode of Happy Days delivered lessons about friendship, honesty, and integrity. 

Richie Cunningham, the clean-cut boy next door, often found himself torn between doing what was right and fitting in. 

Fonzie, despite his tough exterior, was loyal and ethical, teaching us that true coolness comes from treating people with respect.  

Happy Days reinforced the importance of moral integrity, the strength of friendship, and the value of staying grounded amid life’s changes. 

This beloved sitcom revolved around four women living together in their later years, navigating the complexities of ageing, relationships, and friendship. 

The Golden Girls taught us that growing older doesn’t mean losing one’s sense of humour or ability to learn and adapt. 

It also showed that friendships formed later in life can be just as deep and meaningful as those made in younger years. 

Through its witty dialogue and heartwarming moments, the show addressed serious issues such as ageism, health, and grief with a light touch. 

The Golden Girls reminded us that it’s never too late to live life fully, to laugh, and to cherish the bonds we form along the way.