Making the most of meetings

Humans are social beings who enjoy the company of others.

Throughout our lives, we make connections – through schools, sports clubs, service organisations, work-related activities, and hobby and special interest groups.

But, as we get older, our social networks can start to break down. Perhaps either we or our friends move away – into smaller houses, retirement homes, or to be with our families.

Inevitably, some people find themselves trying to make new connections.

The good news is that in many places around the country there are clubs we can join to be among friendly, like-minded people.

Many National Seniors Australia members have joined our local branches. You can contact us to find out where your nearest branch is located or speak to our Community Engagement Manager Karen Furnivall about becoming a branch member or even setting up a new branch in your area.

If you’re particularly active, or you have a wide array of interests, you may find that being a member of just one club isn’t enough.

If you have a hobby – perhaps model trains or crochet or indoor bowls – you may find that there’s an established club in your area. It doesn’t even have to have a theme, apart from people who are looking to get together every week or month, or however often you decide.

Ask around, look online (Facebook is particularly good for this) and check local newspapers, directories, and notice boards at supermarkets and coffee shops.

Again, don’t be afraid to reach out to others and start your own club.

Whether it’s new or established, every club needs to keep it fresh, giving members and potential new members reasons for taking part.

That starts with ideas about how meetings are conducted. Here are a few suggestions:

• Guest speakers: Invite knowledgeable people to speak on topics such as health and wellness, financial planning, travel experiences, or local history. This can spark engaging discussions.

• Interactive activities: Examples include trivia quizzes, board and card games, arts and crafts, group exercises, or gentle yoga sessions.
  

• Group outings: Take regular trips to local attractions, museums, parks, or theatres. It’s great fun to explore new places as part of a group.

• Themed events: It could be a Hawaiian luau, a costume party, a talent show, or a decade-themed event. Encourage members to dress up, participate, and enjoy the festivities.
  

• Volunteer projects: Organise activities such as lamington drives, knitting blankets for homeless shelters, or participating in local environmental initiatives such as tree planting. This can foster a sense of community and camaraderie.
  

• Live entertainment: Music and comedy can uplift your spirits. If you can’t afford professional entertainers, you might be surprised who among your group has hidden talents.

• Intergenerational activities: Encourage interaction with younger people by organising activities with local schools or youth organisations. This could include mentoring programs, intergenerational storytelling sessions, or joint arts and crafts projects.
  

• Celebrations and milestones: Recognise and celebrate club members’ birthdays, anniversaries, and other significant events. Create a festive environment with decorations, special treats, and personalised activities to honour individuals and make them feel appreciated.
  

• Group discussions: Set aside time for open discussions where members can share their experiences, wisdom, and personal stories. These can be thought-provoking and provide an opportunity for bonding.

There are, of course, many other things you can do in a club. It can be as formal or informal as you like; the main thing is to be in good company.